The relational storm has passed and you are now surrounded by an unusual calm. When all the verbal debris began to fly you found a safe place to hide in the presence of God and this is why you are still spiritually alive.
Don’t be too quick to try and sort through all the things that have been uprooted and broken. God does not want you to reassemble the elements of your life to only return to how it was before. This is what caused the storm in the first place. Something different is coming. Wait for God’s new set of blueprints to arrive before you begin any reconstruction process. Your only task now is to thank God that you made it through this storm alive.